Praying for Your Future Husband

by Elisabeth Allen

Sometimes I’m afraid to ask for too much in my future husband because I don’t want to be disappointed. I give You my expectations. I’ll be faithful to pray and leave the rest in Your hands.

(Robin Jones Gunn & Tricia Goyer)

I honestly can’t remember the last time I curled up with a book and spent an afternoon reading it from beginning to end, but that’s what I did the day I got “Praying for Your Future Husband""” by Robin Jones Gunn and Tricia Goyer in the post. It was a review copy – read my review on YLCF – and I was suffering from severe sleep deprivation. And can I also add that I’ve been praying for my future husband for the last fifteen years and I really wanted to know what Mrs Gunn and Mrs Goyer had to say about praying for him before I start praying for him for the next fifteen years? By then I’ll be 42 and either happily married or still praying for him to come when God knows the time is right. Anyway …

“Praying for Your Future Husband” is good – VERY good. I think it’s written for teens and I suspect it’s also written for girls who go to school and date, but that isn’t a good reason why a twenty-something girl who didn’t go to school and prefers the idea of courting to dating shouldn’t read the book. Why? Because Robin and Tricia are writing from their hearts and their stories – writing JUST to encourage the girls of this generation to pray for the guys they’re going to marry. They’re honest – they talk about the things we wonder about when we think of our future husbands. They’re funny – they tell stories that make me cringe (I did that too …) and hope (Maybe someday …) and, always, laugh. And they’re both convicting and inspiring.

I’m grateful for the reminder that if it’s God’s will for me to marry, the guy – the guy who IS my future husband! – is “out there somewhere”. I’m grateful for the reminded that my prayers can make a difference in his heart, his life … and our future. I’m grateful for the reminder that my prayers can and will make a difference in MY heart, MY life … and our future. At 17 it was easy to believe that marriage was a miracle and a gift someday meant for ME. At 27 it’s good to remember that, whether God plans for me to marry or not, my prayers will make a difference  … today and forever.

For so many years, Lord, I thought about what I wanted without thinking about what I could give. I know now that what I give is an amazing gift. First, my prayers, then my heart, then my commitment.

(Robin Jones Gunn & Tricia Goyer)

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I’m giving away a copy of Praying for Your Future Husband""! If you

  • Are a single girl (or the parent of a single girl 10 or older);
  • Have a UK or USA postal address to enter this giveaway;
  • And leave a comment on THIS post …

you will be entered in this giveaway. I will randomly choose a winner and send the winner an email confirming the win and an address for the book. The deadline for entering this giveaway is Tuesday 18th October 2011 at Midnight.